Archive for January, 2010

Baby Care

Monday, January 25th, 2010

“Taking care of my own baby is so tough, it’s so much different from babysitting other’s baby. My baby is constantly on my mind and I think of nothing else. I worry so much and I’ve lost my appetite as well as my sleep.”   Jennifer, 28 years; Anders, 2 weeks

Dr. Stork says: It’ll be tough if you are a first-time parent. It’s even harder if your baby cries a lot, which most babies do in the first few weeks of life. Some babies may cry more than others, no matter how much mom and dad try to meet their needs. The hardest part of those first weeks with baby may be lack of time to do anything for yourself. Whether you are breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, you need to take good care of yourself. When you are breastfeeding you need about 500 extra calories each day. A sandwich and two extra glasses of milk in addition to your “regular” nutritious diet should be enough. Also be sure you drink 12-16 glasses of liquids each day. You don’t have to drink milk to make breast milk. Of course, if you can drink milk, include it as part of your liquids. In addition, drink water and fruit juices, limit your intake of coffee or tea to two cups a day though. When you are nursing, it is important to get comfortable. If you get too tired, you may not be able to produce as much milk. You need to take care of yourself before you can take care of the baby.

Read more on Preparation of Mother, Newborn Baby Care Basics, FAQ On Newborn Baby Care

Does Baby Need Vitamin/Mineral Supplement?

Friday, January 22nd, 2010

My friend recommended some baby vitamin/mineral supplements for my 2-month-old baby. Should I let him take some of the supplements?        Holly, 30 years; Gary, 2 months

Dr. Stork says:You need to continue taking your prenatal vitamins for at least two or three months if you are breastfeeding. This way, your baby will not need an extra vitamin supplement during those first few months that you are breastfeeding. Before giving your baby any supplement at any time, it’s vital to ask your pediatrician. Check with him if your baby needs extra fluoride. Getting enough helps prevent cavities in our teeth, while too much fluoride can be a problem. It can lead to discolored teeth. Since the amount of fluoride in your water supply may be high or low, it’s important that you ask your health care provider how much, if any, fluoride supplement your baby needs. Give exactly as prescribed. Don’t overdose! If you are eating enough nutritious, iron-rich foods, your breast milk will provide enough iron for your baby for about four months. At that time, your pediatrician may suggest an iron supplement. Or he may tell you it’s all right to start feeding your baby an iron-fortified cereal. Most commercial formulas in the market contain fortified iron.

Read also related topics: Milk Nutritional Benefits for Growing Child, Child Development and Food Nutrition

Bathing Baby

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

I have been ‘sponging’ my baby since birth but I think he needs a ‘thorough’ wash now. He is 3 weeks old but I am scared to put him in the water. How do I bathe a baby?       Julia, 26; Joseph, 3 weeks

Dr. Stork says: Most mothers do not put their babies in the water until the navel cord dropped off. And the real baby baths, when you set the baby in the water, can be a little scary at first. When you bathe your baby, wash his head and face first. Don’t use soap on his face. Wash his hair with plain soap or baby shampoo at least once a week. Then use your hand to lather the rest of his body with plain soap. Remember to test the water to be sure it isn’t too hot. Stick your elbow in it. It’s more sensitive to temperature than your hands are. Wash his genitals just as you do the rest of his body. After rinsing him thoroughly, wrap him in a towel and pat him dry. Bath time is always a great time to talk with your baby. Describe what you are doing to him. Tell him how gorgeous he is. He may not like his bath at fist but he’ll probably enjoy it before long. Always remember, NEVER leave baby alone in his bath.

Read also FAQ on Newborn Baby Care

More On Breastfeeding

Saturday, January 16th, 2010

Dr. Stork says: I recently received a lot of calls and enquires on the why, how, when and where on breastfeeding issues. I have compiled the questions and is now presenting the information in this short passage:

Breast milk is the best food for your baby. Breastfeeding is also good for mom as the mom does not have to clean the bottles, does not have to mix the formula and the milk is always at the right temperature to feed! It’s also cheap and it’s more convenient too. Most importantly, it’s satisfying for the mom.

Most likely, you may not be able to produce milk for two or three days after the delivery. However, there’ll be colostrums (yellowish liquid) which will help your baby fight off colds and other illnesses.

When your nipples are sore, as they may be that first week, letting them air dry after feeding will help. If your baby latches on (i.e. baby getting your nipple into his mouth) properly, your nipples shouldn’t hurt much. Be sure to get as much as possible of the areola (the dark area around the nipple) into his mouth as he sucks. If it hurts, break the suction and take him off, then latch him on with more of the areola in his mouth.

The more your baby sucks, the more milk your body will produce. To give breastfeeding a good start, it’s best not to give a baby a bottle during the first month. However, it’s a good idea to offer the baby a bottle once in a while after the first month. Then he’ll be more willing to take a bottle if you aren’t available, and so dad and other helpers can feed him occasionally.

It’s definitely not necessary to hide in your bedroom while you breastfeed. Babies like to eat when they get hungry, but it’s much harder for them to wait a while. You should be able to breastfeed almost anywhere by throwing a blanket over your baby.

Some mothers breastfeed only the first few days. They know how important the colostrums is for the baby during this time and the extra protection against illness the colostrums provide. Many moms continue until baby can drink milk from a cup, perhaps for a year. Their babies may have an occasional bottle, but rely mostly on breastfeeding. A few moms breastfeed longer, and that’s certainly alright too.

If you decided to stop breastfeeding your baby, do it gradually. Suddenly switching baby from your breast to a bottle would be hard on both you and your baby. Your breasts may hurt if you suddenly stop breastfeeding as your body continues to produce milk. It’s far better to give baby a bottle for one of her feedings each day for a few days, then cut out another breastfeeding, then another, until you’re feeding her from the bottle all the time.

Read more on Feeding the Baby, Breastfeeding Baby, Breastfeeding Problems and Advices

Propping The Baby’s Bottle

Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

My friend teaches me to prop my baby’s bottle so that I can still feed him without holding on to the bottle. That way, I can do some of the house chores while he is feeding. I am not sure if I should be propping up his bottle?           Chelsea, 20; Clement, 2 months

Dr. Stork says: The answer is a big NO. Always hold your baby when you give him a bottle. Laying him down and propping his bottle in his mouth is never a good thing to do. A propped bottle gives him no love or emotional support. He needs that from you. He needs eye contact while he’s eating. In addition to the loving he gets from being held while he eats, he’s also less likely to have an ear infection if you don’t ever prop his bottle. Many ear infections are caused by baby drinking from a propped bottle. The passageway from the ear to the throat doesn’t drain well in infancy and the milk if not ‘served’ properly, can go back to his ears and cause an infection. Drinking from a propped bottle is dangerous in another way. If the baby spits up, he could choke on the milk curd because he’d be unable to spit it out with a bottle propped in his mouth.

Read more on Feeding the Baby, Breastfeeding Baby, Breastfeeding Problems and Advices

Baby Seems To Get Hungrier With Feeding

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

I am a fully breastfeeding mum but it seems that my girl is hungrier and hungrier as she grows from 6 weeks old to now 2 months old. Should I supplement her with some formula or should I be giving her water at all?     Mary, 29; Jane 2 months

Dr. Stork says: If your baby seems hungrier at about six weeks, and now at 2 months; it’s probably because she’s growing especially fast. She needs more food, and you might not have enough milk for her. The solution is not to stop breastfeeding her or to rush for the formula milk. Instead, simply nurse her more often. Baby controls your supply of milk. She nurses more often, you make more milk. It may take about two days to increase your milk supply. Then she’ll probably nurse less often again, and be content. If you are breastfeeding fully, your baby doesn’t need water the first four to six months. However, if she has a fever or diarrhea, she needs extra water.

Read more on Feeding the Baby, Breastfeeding Baby, Breastfeeding Problems and Advices

Should I Feed My Baby On Demand?

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

My mother-in-law does not believe in feeding on demand. She says Sam will get fat and he’ll be obsessed with food when he grows up. She makes me feel guilty.        Julie, 30 years; Sam, 6 weeks

Dr. Stork says: If you are bottle-feeding, you know exactly how much formula you are giving your baby. If he does not finish sometimes, he probably was not as hungry as usual. Don’t insist that he drink it all. Baby’s appetite will vary from feeding to feeding. If he drains his bottle and still seems hungry, he may need more. I can understand your worry if you are breastfeeding because you do not know exactly how much your baby is getting. You can always judge his satiety status by observing if he is satisfied for at least an hour or two after each feeding. You can also look for clues if he is feeding enough by making sure that he is active when awake and he wets 6-8 diapers each day. The more objective measure will be to look for weight gain.

Read more on Feeding the Baby, Breastfeeding Baby, Breastfeeding Problems and Advices

Baby Fusses During Feeding

Monday, January 4th, 2010

“I am bottle-feeding my 2-month old boy, he fusses quite a bit during feeding sometimes, what could have been the cause? Have I given him the wrong formula?”   Holly, 24 years old

Dr. Stork says: The ready-to-use baby formula is the most expensive and the easiest to use. Whichever formula you choose, follow instructions carefully. Be sure bottles and nipples are absolutely clean. Boil the ware and let it cool before you mix it with the formula. Always check the temperature of the formula before giving it to your baby, he may fuss because the milk is too hot. Never heat your baby’s bottle in the microwave oven. This is very dangerous as the bottle may feel cool but the baby formula inside could be so hot that it’ll burn your baby.

If he consistently and persistently fusses during feeding, It could also be possible that he’s allergic to cow’s milk. Consult your pediatrician if he needs to prescribe a baby formula made of soybean powder.

Read more on Feeding the Baby, Breastfeeding Baby, Breastfeeding Problems and Advices